I have been trying to say yes more to the kids.  Really as often as I possibly can.  Late last night when Brent was tucking me in, this is pretty normal now, I asked him if he wanted anything from the store.  I was going the next morning.  He told me pumpkin pie.  Normally I would have said no.  But I said yes.  So this morning I ran errands, including picking up the ingredients for pie.  I got home and Brent was very surprised to see the stuff.  He even said that he heard me say yes, but still didn't think I would do it!  Maybe I have been saying no more than I thought.  I felt a little bad about it, but then happy to see how happy he was to be baking a pie this afternoon.